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One of the hardest things I found after my marriag One of the hardest things I found after my marriage ended and Nick died was grounding into a new life vision. 

It had been so dialled in before that.

I thought perhaps I was creating it in my next relationship but then… nope. 

This not a place I ever expected for myself. 

I am absolutely not where I thought I’d be in any area of my life, actually. 

And it’s not all bad! 

Just different.

There’s a beautiful freedom in being a solo mum and… also a heart-wrenching loneliness and… a fair chunk of fear. 

I feel grateful for so much (really, a lot) but I ache for the old me who was doing life with a husband and the father of my kids. 

It’s hard to let go of old dreams and the loveliness of two people raising their kids together working towards common goals. 

Now? It’s up to me. And I feel frozen sometimes and reckless other times and mostly just a bit of a hot mess in between those two extremes.

What I want has changed.

I don’t aspire to co-living with a man anymore. It’s amazing how much our values shift when we allow ourselves to be honest about what feels best in THIS moment.

I’m grateful for meeting new parts of myself and following the breadcrumbs to what feels right for me and my kids right now. 

I’ve gotten cool with not having a plan.

Midlife throws us all kinds of doozies and unexpected bumps. I don’t even aspire to riding them all with ease anymore!

Ha! That’s what old Lisa would have wanted. Now I kind of hold on loosely and dance with the ridiculousness of it all. 

Because honestly, what else to do? 

Loosening my grip on trying to live a life the old me thought was the ‘best plan’ has given me freedom to create from here and now. 

But it took me a long time to realise that I’m different. My needs are different. My goals are different. My idea of a ‘good life’ is so damn different to what it was a decade ago. 

If midlife has discombobulated you and you’d like to get grounded into what you want and need at this stage (and what you need less of!) then comment ‘midlife’ below and I’ll send you a link to a brand new four week experience with me - starting Monday. 

I have so much cool stuff to share. Let’s do it together ❤️
I had an appointment with a psychiatrist booked to I had an appointment with a psychiatrist booked to investigate ADHD meds and as part of that process I had to fill in all sorts of forms for anxiety and depression etc. 

The depression test results showed I was ‘mildly clinically depressed’. 

What?

I guess I was displaying a lot of ‘depressive’ symptoms. 

And had been for a while. 

But I was putting it down to all kinds of things (grief, solo parenting, big life transitions etc) and I was doing all the usual things to help myself. I was trying so hard!

Moving my body, eating well, bed on time (though the 4am wake ups were 😫), social activities. 

And yet I couldn’t shift a low-level mood that I knew was different to anything I’d felt before - very different to after Nick died or even the Covid lockdown struggle vibes.

My baseline was flat. Maybe I was depressed…?

But I know myself. I knew I wasn’t. I knew it was something different. 

So I talked to my GP (who is fab) and we started MHT (after many tests including internal ultrasound, mammogram, bloods, etc) 

And wow wow wow! 

I had been waiting for hot flushes and other well known symptoms to appear - but for me - a low dose of hormones has shown me I’ve absolutely been experiencing perimenopause and it sent my mood off a cliff. 

Here’s what midlife is teaching me more and more - it’s never ONE THING happening. It’s the whole bloody lot of it.

It’s a lot of internal and external change all at once and we need to ask ourselves different questions and lead ourselves through it in new ways. 

I know I’m not alone when it comes to finding this all really confusing and tricky to navigate so I’ve put together something for those of us looking to reconnect back in with ourselves in midlife, figure out what matters now and how to get more of it. 

Whether that’s clarity on next steps, more energy, less crushing overwhelm, more time for friends and hobbies - I reckon it’s possible to get creative, even amongst the very real challenges of this time. 

Hang with me for four weeks, starting Monday and we’ll figure it out together. 

Comment ‘midlife’ below and I’ll send you details. 

Let’s get you - back to you ❤️
One thing that’s possible for us all in midlife One thing that’s possible for us all in midlife is greater self-compassion but faaaaarrrrrr out it’s not always easy. 

I feel like I’ve had a healthy level of self-acceptance over the years but there’s been some doozies (very often in relation to parenting) where I’ve been pretty hard on myself. 

It’s bloody nice to know ourselves better and let go of the idea we were going ride out our human experience perfectly. 

But it’s not an easy thing to do.

That’s why I’ve created a brand new experience for women in midlife.

We kick off in a week.

Create a little moment for yourself to check in with who you are now, what you want for this unique stage of life (energy, connection, lower stress, more joy??) and start taking practical steps towards it.

For all the details write MIDLIFE below and I’ll send you the deets. Or head to the link in my bio 😘
I shared on my Substack about realising I was AuDH I shared on my Substack about realising I was AuDHD and have been asked how I knew that’s what I was. Truth - I didn’t! Came as a complete surprise. 
Here’s just one example of how I experience life for those that are interested. There’s lots more where this came from!
And now I’m going to jump out of the car and do my market routine and head home and drink my coffee and eat my pastry whilst doing my puzzle because THAT IS WHAT I LIKE TO DO EACH WEEK IN EXACTLY THE SAME WAY!
Oh and for the record - I ❤️ my brain - big time

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